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Love Over Life

Home › Forums › Once Upon a Time › Season Six › 6×03 “The Other Shoe” › Love Over Life

  • This topic has 8 replies, 5 voices, and was last updated 8 years, 7 months ago by RumplesGirl.
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  • October 9, 2016 at 10:12 pm #328450
    RumplesGirl
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    If there was one theme of the episode it might be “love over life.” The show seems to stress that because life can end at any moment, the characters need to carpe diem, seize the day, because you never know when it will end.

    Do you think this is a good theme for the show:? How might it play out for our characters who do face the continued “defeat and repeat” lifestyle?

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    "He was a lot of things to me" "The only conclusion was love"
    October 9, 2016 at 10:58 pm #328456
    nevermore
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    I think the message is, as is typical of OUAT, half-baked. I mean, love for whom? What sort of love? There are vast differences between the four messages of the episode:  (1)”you can die anytime, and therefore carpe diem” (Emma/Hook),  (2)”you have only one shot at this, so be present” (Snowing), (3)”I’d rather die than give up on the people I love” (Cinderella), and (4)”we are over, but our love for our child transcends our individual interests” (Rumple/Belle).

    These different messages are all about love,yes, but they are not all love over life. In 3 of these cases, the message is about love transcending ego. Rumple and Ashley are on the “winning” side of that equation, at least for now. Snow has the right message, but Charming is not listening. And Emma is, pretty explicitly, all ego — it’s all about jealousy, and fulfilling someone else’s expectations.

    October 9, 2016 at 11:42 pm #328469
    RumplesGirl
    Keymaster

    I thought Snow and Charming’s end-conversation was the strongest because she’s actually encouraging him to choose life–his life, the life he has with her, the life he has with their children–all of which falls under the umbrella of love and life. I think @nevermore is right about being half-baked because I don’t think they established what it means to choose life vs what it means to choose love.

    If Emma chose “life” let’s say, what exactly does that entail? She’s wouldn’t break up with Hook, she wouldn’t stop seeing Henry, Regina or her parents. What does choosing life for her even mean because her life, according to her, is her whole community which means a life full of various types of love. The show is suggesting that the type of love she needs to choose, expressly at least, is romantic love even if she ends up dying but doesn’t that ignore the many other facets of love that already exist in Emma’s life? Like Henry, Snowing, and Regina??

    The line :”love over life” seems catchy and it’s something that is quotable but when you sit down and think about it, it’s really opaque and doesn’t actually make a lot of sense. To me at least.

    "He was a lot of things to me" "The only conclusion was love"
    October 10, 2016 at 12:40 am #328473
    Gaultheria
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    Rumpel’s tape… Anyone else think that came across like a suicide note? It sounds like he doesn’t have hope to ever speak to his child.

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    October 10, 2016 at 9:27 am #328479
    RumplesGirl
    Keymaster

    Rumpel’s tape… Anyone else think that came across like a suicide note? It sounds like he doesn’t have hope to ever speak to his child.

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    How twisty.

    But does anyone know what the title of the poem is? Or anything about it?

    "He was a lot of things to me" "The only conclusion was love"
    October 10, 2016 at 2:05 pm #328503
    nevermore
    Participant

    Rumpel’s tape… Anyone else think that came across like a suicide note? It sounds like he doesn’t have hope to ever speak to his child.

    I think it could definitely be read as a goodbye of sorts — not sure it’s a suicide note per se…

    Anyway, as to where it’s from, here’s one reference:

    http://www.rampantscotland.com/poetry/blpoems_sleep.htm

    October 15, 2016 at 11:23 am #328708
    Jiminy’s Journal
    Participant

    Jane said that Bobby picked it out himself.

    October 15, 2016 at 1:42 pm #328714
    Sci-Fi Girl
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    ^ And it was absolutely wondrous!! Does anyone have a youtube clip, or audio clip of that scene?!?

    SFG

    Keeper of Anna’s Awkward Babbling and Kristoff’s Fur-trimmed Tunic!

    October 15, 2016 at 10:03 pm #328725
    RumplesGirl
    Keymaster

    ^ And it was absolutely wondrous!! Does anyone have a youtube clip, or audio clip of that scene?!? SFG

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    "He was a lot of things to me" "The only conclusion was love"
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