Charming was at the wedding. The wedding clearly happens post-taking-back-the-kingdoms, and I firmly believe it’s also after Charming and Snow’s public wedding (though maybe just after the honeymoon).
However, a royal wedding could presumably take some time to happen. And it’s possible that Thomas had to hunt a bit for his bride (as per the Cinderella tale) first.
Trying to squeeze in the wand earlier is tricky, but Ariel already moved up everything in that area of the timeline to mid-112 because of the Certain Mermaid comment.
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