I think this pretty much is one reason why I’m assuming most SW/SF shippers are choosing to post here. Their rightfully hurting and instead of clogging up the boards with several threads about how this doesn’t make a lick of sense they are opting to discuss a character they loved with those who share similar thoughts without having to invest energy into explaining to those who don’t understand or are taken aback about why they feel what they do. Different strokes for different folks and all that.
I’m confused why is anyone else even posting here unless to offer condolences or agree with SFers about whatever it is you agree with? There are other threads to talk about the actual episode, and that is where differing opinions should be discussed. It is obvious from the last 40 pages or so that this has become a haven/mourning ground for SFers. Expressing your confusion as to why people grieve the way they do or to try to argue with the POV of those using this thread for grieving here seems out of place at this point in time.
Just my $.02.
EDIT: As many posters have said repeatedly, they are trying to AVOID differing opinions. Otherwise we’d be out on Twitter, tumblr, general chat, 3×15 page, etc. The “justifications” are very painful at this point and, IMHO, should be argued in the episode thread. Especially when the mood in this thread is very clear.