I think what’s really going to make Emma consciously realize , and maybe act, on her feelings toward Hook is going to be his growing relationship with Henry. I don’t see him backimg down from her when it comes to Henry. Which, frankly, she needs.
One of the things that drives me nuts is people’s view that Hook gave Bae to Pan. Hook did the only thing he could do. His “thank you for reminding me” line was a mask. Bae was a 14 year old kid who wanted OFF THAT BOAT. So Hook’s options were 1) keep him prisioner on the JR 2) let Bae off on his own or 3) let Bae and Pan believe he was turning Bae over to Pan. Why did he choose 3? Because it was the best option for Bae. Pan wanted Bae. Bae wasnt going to last a minute on NL by himself. BUT if he feels betrayed by Hook Bae might willingly align himself with Pan…keeping Bae in Pan’s good graces…keeping Bae as safe as he possibly could. And I dont doubt for a second that Hook didnt continue to watch over Bae even after he gave Bae over. Is it a great choice? No. Does Hook regret it? Yes. But there wasnt exactly a good choice among the 3.
Ok enough ranting about Bae. Back to Emma and her feelings for Hook! She’s already almost there. She practically announced from the rooftops that Hook found her/saved her. Giving him due credit for it…the old Emma would not be so willing to admit she needed help/saving.