I also think a lot of people forget that Milah is her own person and she makes her own choices. She chose to leave with Killian. He didn’t force her, he didn’t kidnap her. She fell in love with him and she chose to leave Rumple and Bae behind.
I agree. Milah wasn’t an innocent victim in all of this.
Milah chose to leave with Hook, she also chose to be a complete bitch to Rumple during their marriage. Milah was never the victimised woman. She wasn’t dominated or forced to do things she didn’t want to do by the men in her life.