I actually have no problem with Graham and Emma. Heck Neal wouldn’t have a problem with Graham and Emma. Neal pretty much implied if she was happy he was happy.
Graham and Neal would get along swell enough.
Confession I think I would have preferred Graham over Neal in the end if Emma heart was with Graham. But I also think Neal would have survived that love triangle. Because the focus would be more on coparenting, making amends, forgiveness, and moving on from past loves and hurts.
I also think Neal would have found love beyond Tamara, like with Ruby. I can see Ruby and Neal both watching Henry together in friendship and then it going forward from there over time.
I don’t know I think the harmony would have been stronger in the fandom if it was Emma and Graham and the storyline would be sweeter, tender, hopeful, and family focus then this.
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