I mean, fair I guess. But she did banish Rumple. In Rumple’s case, he’s trying to win Belle back. It just seemed dirtier.
Actually, I take this back you are right, this was absolutely despicable on Rumple’s part and he had no real intention of pursuing this as a legitimate relationship other than a power move. You are also right that it was even worse because he was trying to get Belle back. Belle at least was pursuing a actual relationship that has some iota of truth in it.