Blame the writers that they chose to have Killian and Robin’s grave very close to each other.
We do blame the writers. If you actually read this thread carefully, that’s what people are criticising. The WRITING of the characters which perpetuates what we consider harmful social stereotypes. If Hook and Emma were written in a healthy manner, we’d be on board. So perhaps instead of jumping on anyone who expresses any slight anti-CS sentiment, or branding people as “bitter”, try going back and actually trying to understand what people are arguing.
On a different note, I notice that @thedarkonedearie resurrected the CS thread, trying to stimulate some positive discussion. That was seven hours ago. But instead of having a constructive discussion on there about a ship that you love, you are choosing to frequent the “anti-CS” thread, engaging all of the “bitter” people in petty arguments. Why is that I wonder?