If he really, truly is Baelfire, then I have to agree with you. Just don’t want to believe until it is stated. 🙂 But this is a whole level for him–he was forced to let the woman he loves go, to leave her behind. He must feel like a coward–he wasn’t there for her, to protect her, to stand by her side, to give her everything he promised. And when he learns of Henry, of how August/Pinocchio broke his promise, of the numerous times emma’s life had been endangered, it will be even worse for him, and for all of them.