It has to be after Rumple told her he loved his power more than her and forced her to leave. I think she was even wearing the blue dress she wore at his estate. And she obviously was upset–she’s been drinking and she seemed depressed. Don’t be mean to her. Rumple was extremely mean to her. He THOROUGHLY rejected her and it had to hurt so bad. I don’t think it would be right for her to act any differently. When a relationship IMPLODES like that you have to think “Okay, I was wrong, it wasn’t true love,” despite the kiss. I can’t explain why it seemed like she was talking about more than one guy (I think she DID say that!) but that might not be what she meant, even if she did say it. Rumple’s the one she’s heartbroken about now and he is the one she was talking about.