You just put all my thoughts into words. All the time, I was thinking “Did the writers simply forget that Emma, like any other human being, have feelings?”
I mean, seriously, she found out that her parents are Snow White and Prince Charming, that they are the same age as her, that the woman who looked after her son for years is the Evil Queen, that Dr. Whale is Frankenstein and that he brought Regina’s dead fianceé back to life, that Neal knew about her and magic, and now, that Mr.Gold is Henry’s grandfather and in someway, her father-in-law.