There is an interview with the two makers of the show and they mention at around 2:28 in the video that it may be when Gold hears Emma’s name in the pilot that he gets his memory back. That that may be the catalyst. So maybe his memories aren’t quite clear yet. Link.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=c1OXRubP8Ro
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