I too am not quite sure what to think of her. I felt she was a bit stuck up…maybe even a bit of a brat. I can agree she was lost…you fall asleep and 28 years later your home is gone, evil is lurking around and a warrior comes to get you with your prince and the warrior is a woman…ya, I’d say she’s lost.
I also want to know what she sacrificed. Maybe that will explain her character better.