Are we so sure all of the “good” characters would be so against what Snow and Rumple did? Cora wanted to kill everyone..she was a serious danger to the town. She was a far worst threat than allowing Rumple to live at this point ever would be. I don’t think Bae or Emma could blame Rumple for trying to save his own life. Charming knows Snow had that dark side in her- I don’t think even he would put all the responsibility on Rumple. Will Snow White even bring up that Rumple nudged her towards the candle? She is turning all the blame inward.