Their first scene had me convinced that she had indeed loved him, (which makes it even more of an insult when she spat at him that she never had, right before he killed her).
But the change in her in that scene where he came back from the war was just SUCH a complete 180, it totally threw me. I guess she’d been getting crap from people in town about her husband being a coward, but still, if you love your husband, you stand by him, and she’d already written him off before he’d limped in the door! 😡
If she really thought her son would suffer more by having a coward for a father than being fatherless, why didn’t she take Bae with her on Hook’s ship?