Am I one of the few who doesn’t want to despise her? I mean it’s just too cliche. It reminds me of Glee and how Jesse St. James was ONLY there to cause disturbance in the finchel ship -.- and I really liked him and I wanted to develop a background story for him. Like Kathryn, I wanted her to find her Frederick, I wanted to see them get together just for the simple fact HE WAS THE ONE FOUND HER CAR ON THE SIDE OF TEH ROAD! It was like this subtle hint at this deeper love between them that was just left like that car on the side of the road. I want to like Tamara I want it to be some kinda plot either with her and August or her and Neal where they do this pretending engagement or maybe she’s doing it for a greater purpose to get inside and help the SB gang….or maybe she’s lost too, being with him to quell some type of loneliness only to go to SB and discover this long lost love and flock to him. I’d like that story because Once is all about the neutral gray area of a person. That not everything is light and pure or dark and evil. There is this gray where everything fits into and that even stands for women after our ship. They can still be endgame without her being horrible. Plus after listening to Jane Espenson’s description about why Rumbelle is going through turmoil, it felt like it applied to Swanthief too. She said how good parts of a relationship happen off camera, rarely do they take part on screen. So why give our couple so many obstacles if they’re not meant ot be? Sorry but there’s no captain Swan obstacle, just chemistry but seriously he has chemistry with any female he talks to, it’s his personality. Doesn’t mean they are meant and he’s far too dedicated to the memory of Milah