Ranisha Pitts wrote: Couples fight and have problems but that does not make that behavior okay. I have worked with plenty of women who are dealing with men who is pretty much using them emotionally and sexually to satisfy their own needs.
Using a fight as excuse to cheat is not a good or healthy way to deal with fighting and problems in the relationship but simply adds to it.My ex used to do this to me. When I finally told him that I needed a break and to figure out my life, he would make a big show of how he was going out and dancing with other women and would insinuate that other things happened. And, as someone with intense abandonment issues and deep self-loating, I’d go running back intent on making him “love me” again. It’s a cycle. It’s not healthy. And it’s not how relationships are supposed to work.
Is it wrong for me to say that we all need to get in a car, and find RG’s ex so we can seriously set it the (beep) off! Lisa, Jo, Heather, Slurp, and POM…we need to take a road trip!
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