[heatherc1275]

This just came across my Instagram today: “Treat people as you would like to be treated. Karma’s only a b**** if you are.” There are more than a few people in this fandom out there that need to take this to heart.

We only have 24 hours to go now guys. We can do this! *HUGS* 😀

#HopeforSwanFire #HopeforNeal #HappyEndingsforSwanFireFamily

[heatherc1275]

Oh good grief.. what in the world did I miss today while I was in the world (buying cute clothes.. it was for a good cause). Dare I venture into the fandom world and find out?

Oh gosh, don’t bother. It will probably just make you mad and shake your head at people too! This online fandom is fast becoming a cesspool of filth and I’d rather just hide in here and stay where the sane people are because it makes my heart hurt a LOT less. For the record, I don’t think the big stuff came from any Neal spoilers at all but from other set stuff which we’ve all ready talked about how that can be extremely misleading without having the context.

Thanks for the hugs RG. I hope I get a really good night of sleep tonight so I can be a less emotional wreck while watching the show tomorrow night! 😉

#MoreBOOMLessGloom

[heatherc1275]

heatherc1275 wrote:

I also hate that people are rooting for a kid to be fatherless. As a kid who grew up fatherless because my dad really was a deadbeat, that makes my heart hurt SO much. What is wrong with people?!

Different situation but my mom and dad got divorced when I was 2 and I saw him sporadically my whole life until he died when I was 18. The sheer idea that they want Henry to be without his father–I can’t. Even if Emma and Hook got married and he was Henry’s step father….that’s great. Fine. Step-parents are great. But omg. You don’t try to replace a kid’s father espeically when that father LOVES his son and the son LOVES his father. This isn’t the case of Neal being abusive or neglectful. He LOVES his son. And Henry LOVES him. See a theme: LOVE. So to root for this trauma (because that is what it freaking is….it’s traumatic) is just…stomach turning

I agree and it really is wishing trauma on a young boy just because of your ship which also disgusts me to lengths I can’t even write about and I seriously got teary just now thinking about it (darn fatigue…I’m extra emo today, LOL). Why would anyone with half a brain wish that on anyone else??! 😥

And I guess I shouldn’t make my story so short because I re-read it and I realized that I left some stuff out. My parents divorced when I was about 2.5 and for a while growing up, he was actually in my life and I got to see him a few times a year (mainly holidays but occasionally for other stuff too) but as I got older, and his life went in some crazy directions which is a long story that I won’t bore you with, he didn’t seem to want to see me much and I ended up pretty jaded and not wanting to see him much either. I was shocked when he, my stepmom, and grandma on that side of my family all actually showed up for my high school graduation. He never wanted or offered to help me with college costs and I pretty much never saw him once I hit college age. I asked him, my stepmom, and grandma to come to my college graduation but they claimed they got lost trying to find my school (seriously?! My school is not that hard to find at all) and instead of trying to call me or my mom, they just turned around and went home. The kicker? My college is TWO HOURS away from my hometown so do they really think I believe that they drove two hours up to my school, got lost, never called anyone, and then turned around and just went home?! If you’re not coming, just tell me and get it over with…I could have handled it. I’m at a point in my life now where I just don’t care about him anymore and it makes me sad because I know all of this stuff has affected me in so many ways (dating, trust issues, emotional issues, etc) and there isn’t much I can do about it. I wish every day that I’d had a great dad in my life because I think it would have made a big difference for me, so it BURNS me up inside to see people wishing that type of life for Henry. He has a LOVING and WONDERFUL dad in his life and any type of show that is about love, family, hope, and belief in happy endings should NEVER EVEN CONSIDER having a kid lose a loving parent. Seriously I have SO many feelings and issues about this that it just burns me up and makes me crazy. Again, what is wrong with people?! Take your shipper goggles off and THINK about what you’re wishing for with that story. 😥

Gah, there are some things that I can just laugh off or brush off but this one stings and just gets me way too deep in the feels. There will be no words from me if A&E screw this story up somehow. 🙁

Happy Thoughts: LOTS OF NEAL TOMORROW NIGHT. 😀

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[heatherc1275]

I may or may still be exhausted from the crazy kids at the lock in last night but I do have a few thoughts that I feel like sharing today. Pardon any grammar, typing, or other mistakes I make today…I did spend 26+ hours straight being awake yesterday through this morning, LOL 😆

First, this fandom is like a cesspool of filth lately with people being b****y to each other, people telling others that they can’t wait to laugh and make fun of them when whatever bad things happen, and others just being general PITAs about anything and everything that’s posted from the set. Seriously?! This is how this fandom is going to be now?! I can’t believe there are people out there actively rooting for something bad to happen so they can make fun of that person’s fans. That tells me a WHOLE lot more about THEM than it does about anyone else. People who have that mindset make me really sad because their priorities are completely effed up and their reality is just pathetic. As much as I don’t care for Hook right now, if something bad happened to him I would feel bad for his fans because it sucks when something bad happens to your fave character. At this point in time though, I won’t feel THAT bad for them because I personally feel like they’re just begging karma to come crap all over them. This is just my opinion but I feel like you should never make comments about something that you don’t have all the facts for because you are seriously begging for something bad to happen to YOUR fave. I also hate that people are rooting for a kid to be fatherless. As a kid who grew up fatherless because my dad really was a deadbeat, that makes my heart hurt SO much. What is wrong with people?! 😥

Two, why are people taking set pics as canon?! Haven’t we been through this before about set pics not being great because we don’t know the context? Haven’t we all ready established that outside stuff (especially in SB) doesn’t comprise the majority of the episodes right now? It’s like they’re not paying attention to anything and I honestly don’t understand that at all. I stopped paying much attention to set pics from SB a while ago because we have NO context for any of it so it means nothing to me.

Three, did half the OUAT fandom lose their logic and ability to reason because of their shipping goggles?! I swear I have seen some stuff in the last few days that makes me want to lose my lunch because it makes NO sense with regards to STORY FROM THE SHOW. I cannot believe how warped some people’s brains are with some of their theories. I don’t even want to repost some of the things here because they’re so off the wall but come on, if people are really believing some of those things, then I can’t help you because I can’t see ANY of those things happening and I think that without my shipper goggles on and just by  looking at things as a general OUAT fan! Wow. 🙁

Fourth, I love when Adam puts people in their place. We really DON’T know anything in context so for anyone to be freaking out about anything, it just doesn’t make sense right now. Seriously fandom, LEARN THIS FACT SOON BECAUSE YOU’RE DRIVING ME CRAZY, LOL 😉

Last, I think a lot of our random fears are going to be put to rest tomorrow night with the Belle/Neal story and getting some much needed answers to a few of our most burning questions. There are apparently some good reasons that we don’t know much about their story aside from the PR and a few other tidbits from articles and I’m hoping this story is freaking amazing because they’ve sure kept it under wraps for long enough! And quite frankly, I’m just going to sit back and enjoy having an episode where my fave guy gets a lot of screen time because I feel like I’ve waited patiently enough for it. I don’t have youth group tomorrow night either so I will be able to watch in chat with everyone else for the ENTIRE episode! So excited to enjoy the whole episode with everyone!! 😀

/end rant (This rant brought to you by my fatigue, a slightly upset tummy that ate a ton of insane food during the lock in, and a brain that could really use some bleach right now to erase some of the crazy crap I’ve seen online in the last few days, LOL)

Random: I think we’re going to hit 900 pages before tomorrow night’s episode even airs and then we may fly by that mark at light speed after we get a whole hour of Neal and SF airtime!!! 😉

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[heatherc1275]

heatherc1275 wrote:

I’m going down with this ship too. Nothing will ever convince me that they haven’t set this story up right from the start. I think we all need to do a SF S1 rewatch this summer just to see all those little things that have been in place since the show started. I might have to watch S2 again though too just because S1 is obviously missing MRJ and Neal’s awesome smiles and hugs

Can you imagine all of us watching Tallahassee and Manhattan together?! OR SECOND STAR TO THE RIGHT?!

GAH. That would be so awesome! I think there would be much flailing and so many feels that we could probably send them right through the computer to each other, LOL 😀

#MoreBOOMLessGloom

[heatherc1275]

kfchimera wrote:

I think it was your tumblr, awhile back you wrote something about how SF is your ship no matter what happens, and I thought that was fantastic too, and was going to quote it here for discussion.

Same. No matter what happens, this is my ship

kfchimera wrote:

I definitely agree, these obstacles are the things keeping the story going, or else it would skip to the happy ending part far too easily.

S4: the kitchen table season

S4: Kitchen Table season……WANT.THIS.TO.HAPPEN. 😀

I’m going down with this ship too. Nothing will ever convince me that they haven’t set this story up right from the start. I think we all need to do a SF S1 rewatch this summer just to see all those little things that have been in place since the show started. I might have to watch S2 again though too just because S1 is obviously missing MRJ and Neal’s awesome smiles and hugs. 😉

So many great things to read today and I agree with so many of them! Y’all say it way better than me though so I’ll just sit here and enjoy reading them rather than rambling aimlessly and saying most of the same things in a roundabout and insane way, LOL 😉

#MoreBOOMLessGloom

[heatherc1275]

@Lecygne – Welcome to the SF Haven!!!! I see RG all ready gave you some cookies and hot cocoa with cinnamon so allow me to just be another person welcoming you to the fun! We have a lot of awesome fun in here chatting about our fave duo but we do also have our emo moments at times (both good and sad, LOL), we usually have a ton of pretties from our talented SF artists and vid makers, and we ALWAYS have each other’s backs so I’m thrilled to welcome you to our crazy little world!! 😀

HAPPY BIRTHDAY @Artseediva and I hope you have an AWESOME day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 😀

Happy Friday everyone!!! Can you tell I’m a little excited that it’s finally almost the weekend?! 😉

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[heatherc1275]

It’s insane that we have all these awesome head canons going on right now, most of which could easily be right and what actually happens, and then we’re gonna watch the show on Sunday night and every single one of us will probably be wrong, LOL 😆

 

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[heatherc1275]

[quote=256134]I just rewatched. Mick and Rainbow, I think you’re right. I think Emma says, “he’s hoping.” It must be Neal. This is after the SF reunion and Neal is trying to find Rumple in order to get Henry’s memories back. [/quote]

I haven’t watched the sneak peaks in S3B at all (I have read a few things but haven’t watched any of them) because I like enjoying everything in the show as a whole, but I do have a question about this one. If she does say ‘he’ instead of ‘here’s’ in that one quote and the SF reunion does in fact happen earlier in the episode, do you think this negates Neal being the monkey? It could still be him but if he’s all ready met up with Emma earlier, then more than likely he isn’t anywhere near them when the monkey attacks because he probably hasn’t even reunited with his father yet. I’m just thinking the ‘attacking’ monkey could really be Little John trying to get their attention. Maybe LJs death, if that’s what happens when Charming swipes at him, could be what lets them know that the monkeys are still people and if they can find a spell or a way for them to get ahold of their humanity again, they can somehow save them from their monkey fate. Aren’t several other people including like, half of the dwarves still missing? This could be the way everyone figures out how to save those people because one, that spoiler of doom is still lurking and has driven everyone way over bonkers so I doubt there will be other deaths of cast members who have been around since S1, and two, I really don’t think the show will go there in killing off half of Snow’s dwarf posse this year.

I really need this episode to air so I can finally breathe and relax again, LOL 😆

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[heatherc1275]

Ugh, SF feels on my MP3 right now: “What Hurts the Most” by Rascal Flatts. 😥

 

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