I don’t think Tamara had a particular land in mind when she threw the bean, she just knew it would take Neal someplace else. Even Emma said something similar to Neal (paraphrasing): “We need to get you to a hospital or you’ll die no matter what land you go to.”
I think it is the one that controls the bean the more I think about it remember the Blue Fairy stated that this bean will take you to a place without magic.
I agree, and when Hook took his ship to Neverland he was the one who chose that land. Unless he had to get everyone on board to think of NL at the same, which it didn’t seem like since Smee didn’t even know until a few seconds before they went into the portal.